When you're doomed!

My friends (Allah inn sab ka bhala karay) never gave me a good opinion about marriage (in fact one - Saeed offered a full support and his car keys to run away from my nikkah (marriage) ceremony - let's see it turns out to be a good decision to stay or I would regret why I didn't took the blue pill - surprisingly his car color is blue), they always have some stories or warning when we talk about marriage or WIFE :-s not be mention, the tension I've seen in my friend's face when they receive calls from their so-called better half (pata nahe who and why they started calling like this). Let's try to compare the 2 lives - bachelor and married.

• Azadi (Freedom): well, there is no doubt you've more freedom being bachelor - can go anywhere, anytime - all the time, unless you don't have an Army dad at home :-s if your father is/was in Army then you can feel the pain I'm referring.
• FUN/Joy Factor: here I think, one has a 50/50 chance. So let's call it a tie.
• Responsibility: feeling of responsibility or personality change is better at married side which again is good not to feel too happy about if you're a casual going type.
• Care: You somehow tends to start care about your wife and less about your friends... waisay why you do this, when you know God has made wife to make sure you don't spend a relaxed minute in your life - this is what I think, Afif will agree but we've others like Sohail, which sometime confuses me if he is married at all - nothing has changed in his life after marriage and everything is changed for Afif... why Afif why? And we're friends like Saqi007 who're waiting for Pakistan to pass law like some in Europe and American states about marriages, maybe.. :)
• Professionalism: Well, surely... you change after becoming only better-HALF when earlier you were better FULL.. ;-) You start to care more about your job security and stuff when earlier you were only cared about where to spend your money and now how to save your money..

People are right when they say, girl/woman changes in your plans of life and sometime, it works for good.

Best of luck who want to be married and Best of luck who wants to be bachelor again - of course and unfortunately you can't enjoy 2 shows in 1 ticket.